You must have enjoyed reading 5 tell-tale signs that she’s a runs girl. I can already picture you smiling and shaking head while you mutter “spoilt children.” In the spirit of equality, I’m happy to announce that today, you’ll find out 10 ways to spot a gigolo.
Before you attack me, just acknowledge that men can be in the olosho business. It’s not reserved for women alone. Just as a runs girl is a hot cake among men, a gigolo is a hot cake among women who are not looking for a committed relationship. They just want male companionship, and a gigolo is there to serve them.
A gigolo is a man who gets paid to sleep with women or at least offer them some companionship. He is usually an attractive guy, the type any girl can easily fall for. He is a smooth talker and knows his way around getting a woman to his bed. In fact, some gigolos are actually trained for this, and they’re in high demand among middle-aged women who are either married, unmarried, or divorced.
To know more about a gigolo, keep reading. If as a man you’re feeling attacked by this piece, that one concern you there.
Table of Content hide 110 ways to spot a gigolo 1.11. He doesn’t have a job but lives a luxurious lifestyle 1.22. The nightclubs are his second home 1.33. He’s always around wealthy women 1.44. He’s thirst-trapping all the time on social media 1.55. Always dressed to kill 1.66. He’s a smooth talker and very manipulative 1.77. He’s always asking to borrow money 1.88. He doesn’t have a place to stay despite living a lavish lifestyle 1.99. He’s great in bed 1.1010. He doesn’t value women10 ways to spot a gigolo
1. He doesn’t have a job but lives a luxurious lifestyle
He doesn’t have a job, not from a wealthy family and he’s not a yahoo boy, then he’s most likely a gigolo. How else will he be able to fund his expensive lifestyle? He lives in an expensive apartment and drives the poshest cars, but he can’t disclose what he does for a living unless on the threat of death. He’s a gigolo.
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2. The nightclubs are his second home
Make that his first home. A gigolo is hardly ever home in his. He’s always gallivanting around, making connections that will take him to wealthy people, both men, and women. A nightclub is a hotspot for those looking for casual hookups. Both the rich and poor patronise it but a gigolo can easily spot a rich person from a mile away.
3. He’s always around wealthy women
If you’re wondering why your friend is always around wealthy women, the answer is he’s likely not a personal assistant. He’s like a gigolo at their service. If the women are particularly middle-aged, unattractive but rich, then congratulations. You have spotted a gigolo.
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4. He’s thirst-trapping all the time on social media
Runs girls aren’t the only ones who know how to thirst trap on social media. A guy who is always teasing his followers with his assets is a gigolo. He is not necessarily doing it for likes or comments, though a good following increases the chances of getting contacted for his services. He’s doing it for his clients, and they know themselves. So if you see an overly hot guy that has dropped his contacts and e-mail addresses for bookings and inquiries without any visible job, gigolo!
5. Always dressed to kill
As in eh, this guy can dress for Africa even when it seems his destination is not particularly important. He always looks well put together. Unlike women, men don’t have to expose their privates to look sexy. All they need is to look great in expensive wear and they get people drooling after them. A gigolo knows this, which is why he always looks like he just stepped out of a magazine shoot.
6. He’s a smooth talker and very manipulative
As previously stated, a gigolo is well trained in his art. He can spot vulnerabilities in women which include loneliness, heartbreak, depression, and sorrow. And he knows how to manipulate the situation in his favor. He often comes across as a Messiah, offering to help while in reality, he is looking for an opportunity to smash both physically and financially.
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7. He’s always asking to borrow money
A gigolo is always lacking money. It’s not like he doesn’t make money in his trade, but he’s often a spendthrift. The way the money comes, that’s how it goes. So he’s left with no choice but to look for who will lend him money to maintain his lifestyle. You see that guy that drives an expensive car but doesn’t have a place to live and always needs to borrow money because his “contract” is hanging, run from that guy. He’s a gigolo, and he will milk you dry and run away.
8. He doesn’t have a place to stay despite living a lavish lifestyle
Any guy who seems to have it all but a place to stay is likely a gigolo. Think about it. How can he afford to own an expensive car, wear designer outfits, seems to know everyone but seems homeless? Of course, he will deny that he’s homeless. It’s just that his rent expired unexpectedly, or he’s having problems with his landlord, or he’s renovating his house. The truth is he’s either squatting with a richer relative or a friend. Invite him into your house, and before you know it, his toothbrush is hanging beside yours in the bathroom.
9. He’s great in bed
What else is he good at? Years of practice and training are not wasted when it comes to satisfying women in bed. He will show you things that you don’t know your body is capable of. By the time he’s done handling you, you’ve spoken in a million different tongues. He will make you long for more, and he’ll always be there to fulfill that longing as long as you send aza in his akant.
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10. He doesn’t value women
You can’t always tell in your first meeting. But overtime, he will begin to display his distaste for women. Gigolos don’t have any love for women. They have nurtured their hatred for years and simply take out their revenge through oloshoism. So if you think that incredible guy who knows his way around your body after collecting some money thinks well of you, think again. Many of them are products of dysfunctional homes and abuse who are simply manifesting their trauma through sleeping around for money. Don’t fall for their charm.
So, now that you know how to spot a gigolo, it’s left for you to know what to do if you meet one. If you’re looking for a committed relationship, stay far away from a gigolo. But if you have the misguided idea that you can change him, see you, see premium breakfast with an empty bank account.
